Spell to help us find a suitable house?

[LadyStitches]

Need some help here- we've ended up in a complicated situation.  Apologies up front, it's not meant as a rant, or a ramble- I just think it's best if you have all the info up front.

My husband got promoted within his company, but in a new city about 5 hours away.  Yippee!  Of course, because of it, we have to move.  He started this new job back in early November, and we had planned to move by Jan 1.  Also, part of the plan is now that he's making more money I'll be working from home launching my own business.  Again- Yippee!

Here's where it gets complicated.  We can't find a place to live.  We had planned on renting a year so that we could get a feel for the area before buying a house, but nothing is working for us.  Rentals are very sparse there, and the ones that we do find either do not allow large dogs- we have a black lab thats been in the family for 8 years now.... getting rid of him is NOT an option.  Or, have not been as advertised (like the 3 brm house that was really a 2 brm with a porch as the 3rd room).  We have a large family, so a 3 bdrm is really the smallest we can go (there's 6 of us).

I've already quit my day job, since we had a goal move-by date.  The university he was attending screwed up and instead of just switching him from regular classes to online, they switched him for 2 weeks, then dis-enrolled him entirely so his housing allowance has been cut until he starts up classes again, which could be anywhere from 3-6 weeks from now (and now we actually owe the VA $ because they paid for the class that he was mistakenly cut from)   So, we've had to use money that had been planned for the move to cover our current housing costs- our rental here and him renting a room there.  I don't know when that extra bit of income will come back.  I'm trying to get the online portion of my business up and running, but that's slow going, and I'm listing items on craigslist to not only earn some additional $, but also lighten the load so-to-speak, so we have less to move & can hopefully use a smaller moving truck.

I'm not sure what to focus the intent of the spell on.  Would you focus on finding the money to move, finding the house to move into, or just on being whole as a family again?  Our needs are modest, and I can sacrifice being in the perfect place if it means that we can be together again.  Any other additional spell tips would be great- I haven't had the most success with them lately.  I just miss him so much, my energies are all outta whack without him around.      Ugh, and I hate being alone in this house! 

[Kaleesie]

Merry Meet personally, LadyStiches, .. From what I have read, and my personal opinion, I think that everything happening all at once seems to over complicate the problem. To me, it seems like if you had the extra money, all of the other issues would resolve themselves. You would have the $$$ to be able to afford a home that would be large enough to fit every member of your family, and have you and them all together.
Now, there may be something else I may not see, but that is the first impression I have gotten.
I know how jumbled one can feel in the absence of a loved one, believe me!  Or maybe someone else can offer better advice. This is just my humble opinion. I wish you luck and a bit of green coming your way.

Blessed Be
Kaleesie

[SnowAngel]

I think perhaps that having your energies out of whack may be complicating your problems as well?  Goddess knows there's good reason, you have A LOT on your plate right now!  But is there any way you can lock yourself away for a bit, get some peace and quiet so you can meditate?  Getting yourself back in balance is a biggie!  It may be that a really good solution is right there, but with your energies being all 'wonky' you just can't see it.
Or at least if you can quietly meditate, get grounded and feel some peace, the right question to ask your guides will come to you.  Life can certainly be overwhelming at times and things will get better, hang in there!
I hope this helped 

Brightest Blessings
SnowAngel

[lepetitmort]

I'd focus on finding the money. Even if you found the perfect place, without the money it will do no good. I would not hesitate to call on places that don't list accepting pets as sometimes they have such specific pet rules they can't fit them in an add or prefer people without them but will accept them so it's always a good idea to ask if it is not mentioned. I've been in 4 rentals so far that stated no pets, though through working with the landlords I've successfully convinced them otherwise namely by offering to do all the cleaning and painting before and after moving in, declining the need for new carpets by putting in Laminate flooring to make them less worried about cost to replace it after we leave, as well as taking very comprehensive set of photos before moving in and signing that any repairs needed caused by the animals would be my responsibility and by showing them my dogs have been through training classes, have not destroyed my current home, and are securely crated when I'm not home.

[LadyStitches]

Thank you all.  It's so good to have someone to talk to about it.  My husband, while missing us, is busy with his new job (working up to 12 hrs a day).   My mom, who I used to be close to, well... let's just say she's gone a bit nutzo lately, so talking to her isn't much help. 
I took some time to do a reading for myself (I've yet to find my guide in meditation).  It was very helpful and I felt like it gave me a focus.  I will be doing a spell to draw some extra income.  I've set a goal date, just to have something to shoot for. 
 

[Kaleesie]

Life can be hectic. It usually never goes the way we plan it. But, it helps to talk things out and get a different perspective.  There are some people on this site that have helped me through VERY difficult situations. (they know who they are ) please keep us informed on the situation. I'd love to hear a great and positive outcome!

Blessed Be
Kaleesie