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« on: December 22, 2009, 07:01:02 PM »

I have reason to believe my lover is lying or cheating on me. I need a spell (of any kind, really) to tell if he is telling the truth. He is very smart and denies ever doing anything wrong to me. How can I use my magick to see if his love is pure or if I merely am a pawn?
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« Reply #1 on: December 22, 2009, 07:16:39 PM »

Why do you mistrust your lover?  If love is not built on trust, it is not love.  Doing a spell to "prove" he is true to you simply proves you do not trust him. 

Perhaps you should examine *your* feelings and motives.  You would need to do this for an effective spell in any case. 
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« Reply #2 on: December 22, 2009, 07:38:41 PM »

Same question Harpwitch asked "why do you mistrust him?" and one of my own, Has he done something in the past to violate your trust?
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« Reply #3 on: December 22, 2009, 08:14:46 PM »

I'm not sure you want to use magic for that. You're feelings would influence your spell and perhaps make a mess. I'm not sure what you can do besides confront the person or wait it out, but I'd suggest staying away from magic in this regard.
Maybe you could instead create a spell to release or clear negativity from your environment or to support a loving space?
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« Reply #4 on: December 22, 2009, 08:18:15 PM »

This question has been posted in two different places by the same person.  Perhaps they could be consolidated?
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« Reply #5 on: December 22, 2009, 08:24:35 PM »

I think the only spell ingredients you need are your own eyes.  You can see if your lover isn't entirely devoted to you.  When you kiss or hug, you can tell if he's into the moment or somewhere else.  When you say I love you, you can see if he returns the feeling, before he even says anything.  

I wish you luck, love, and blessings.
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« Reply #6 on: December 23, 2009, 02:26:03 PM »

Love. The fifth element? Or is it only a human emotion. Love causes such deep pain but gives great pleasure.
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« Reply #7 on: December 23, 2009, 03:25:21 PM »

I'm sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. 

If there is no trust, there is no love.  There may be obsession, there may be other things, but there is no love. 
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« Reply #8 on: January 03, 2010, 03:41:11 PM »

While someone we love may hurt us, and we may want to look past their mistakes if they apologize for them, it is important to look carefully at your feelings. While love is best with trust, I do think it's possible for trust issues to arise, despite true love. People make mistakes, and people make bad choices. Or they may not fully understand their own feelings. We are humans, complex creatures, and Love can't be boiled down so simply.

You need to calm down, and examine things closely. Why are you with him? Why is he with you? Do you think he is as fully invested in the relationship? What happened to make you think he cheated? Why would he cheat? Why isn't he being fully honest if he did? If he did, would you leave him or seek counseling to try and work past it? Is this a situation that happens often?

But, as stated, you don't want to bring magic into this. As Yoda says, "A Jedi must act when he is calm, at peace". Witches are the same way. When you bring that much negativity energy into the Circle, it will get into the spellwork, and cause more problems than it solves.

Talk to him. Find a close friend or someone else you can talk to about what's going on. And most importantly, evaluate if this relationship is one you really should be in.
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« Reply #9 on: January 30, 2010, 06:11:57 AM »

Perform a Binding. Possibly with a Poppet.

Once things cool off, jump in your escape hatch and leave.
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« Reply #10 on: January 30, 2010, 08:22:46 AM »

I don't believe there is anything wrong with casting a spell for more clarity, or casting a spell to show the truth about something  BUT.......

The previous posters are right as well. When you ask for this kinda spell, it seems to me that you most likely already know the answer. I think it is likely that you just want the spell to validate your suspicions. You don't need a spell for that, you just need a little more trust in your intuition. Just my thoughts.
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